It’s All in Your Attitude, and Choice of Words!

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Shanty-, House-, Boat: What’s in a Name?

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Chances are that you, like me, look at the above scene and see a happy, thriving water community squeezed in the margins of the ‘normal, productive society’ topping the banks. When this was carved, that’s exactly what it was.

But Concerned Citizens  and Bureaucrats (CC/Bs) see a sinister encroachment on their jurisdiction/privileges that is simply intolerable. They once thought of us merely as lazy ne’er-do-wells, but nowadays consider us to be full on parasites, criminals and detriments to property value. Maybe even Terrorists. Maybe, even…

Un-American.

Unless we’re willing and able to spend our lives in hostile meetings and offices… unless we can live with frequent run-ins with Authority… unless we’re willing to be moved along at (holstered) gun-point… unless we’re willing to live with the chance of legal proceedings of condemnation and confiscation….

We’ve got to be wiley.

What follows, here, are some thoughts on strategies for avoiding pushing a Concerned Citizen’s buttons. Setting in motion a Bureaucratic avalanche. Triggering the chase reflex of Busybodies and Authorities.

Musings, only. None of this is in the least intended to derogate anyone or their boats. Personally, my tastes run in almost perfect inverse to the ‘standards’ of Society! In those lovely backwaters where folks can still get away with being, in large part, themselves, I bid all power to the people.

Attitude

Despite the rather resentful flavor of this rant, I tend to like and get along with the persons I’m calling CC/Bs.

It helps to remember that they are just folks – often frustrated by dreams they’ve felt compelled to ditch along the way and lives they’ve chosen. Given a chance, they can very often be won over. Often, they become surprise allies!

Smile – A sincere smile goes a long way toward disarming a hostile approach.

Be relaxed and friendly – What have we got to lose? Belly bumping and shouting harden lines of opposition. Escalation isn’t  in our interest.

Be hospitable – To offer a cup o’ kindness – whether or not it is accepted, evokes a powerful, positive

Seek common ground
– Getting to ‘yes’ is our goal, and common ground helps us forward.

Don’t volunteer problems – We may be concerned that they think thus-and-so, but let them raise the subject. No need to drop problems into their minds.

Don’t show fear or submission – Both arouse the Bully within.

Bottom line, treat CC/Bs with friendly and consistent courtesy, regardless of their attitude, and don’t sell yourself short. I’ve seen a LOT of the other kinds of interaction go south in short order. Most of those didn’t go well for our side.

Looks Can Be Deceiving

CC/Bs seem prone to love- or hate-at-first sight. We want to tip the balance in our favor, insofar as possible, or at least prevent a capsize the other way.

Note that none of these strategies actually imply what they suggest. They’re more like camouflage, really.

Tidiness suggests responsibility. The first thing to set a CC/B on the warpath is a mess of any description. Trash, clutter,  loose tarp. Anything. Keeping it tidy is an investment in conflict avoidance.

Paint and trim suggest pride. There’s a fine line between ‘run-down’ and ‘quaint’. Neither are ideal, as they both attract attention. But since attention can’t be avoided, we hope for the latter.

Visible safety gear suggests sea-worthiness and responsibility. .Running lights, anchor gear, PFDs, etc. all telegraph that you won’t have to be bailed out by the municipality.

A visible motor or sailing rig (propulsion) suggests movement and trancience.We aren’t a fixture. At worst we represent a temporary problem. Maybe we’ll move along on our own, with no action ‘required’.

What’s in a Name?

Is there a functional difference between a shantyboat, a houseboat and a (liveaboard) boat (aka vessel)?

The distinction is at best fuzzy, and to my mind moot. The name reflects the romantic relationship one has with their vessel, more than any fundamental difference. I think of our own homes as in all three terms,  depending on mood and context. At most, any distinctions involve very fuzzy thresholds.

But to the CC/B , the distinctions are stark and have legal and procedural teeth.

Shanties – whether by land or sea – are seen as dwellings on ‘the wrong side of the tracks’. Derelict by definition. A problem to solve. (Con)Damnible.

Houses whether by land or sea – have a measure of respectability. They have an address. Valuation. Standing. CC/Bs generally live in one themselves, and aspire to own one or more. Just changing the label on a structure can afford a false sense of affinity..

Houseboats are an actual legal category; a box on the registration form! If you have any choice, ’tis better to live aboard a boat than a houseboat. Houseboats suggest living aboard, a not always licit activity. They’re often restricted in number and location, if not forbidden outright.

Note that CC/Bs are often hypocritically associated with shanty- and houseboats of their own. A retreat, if you will, from the rigors of eradicating vermin. If sufficiently quaint or kempt and floating properly in a marina or alongside sufficiently privileged private property, or even in selective, look-the-other-way playgrounds, no problem.

Boats, too, are a legal category, but as yet the least encumbered. All kinds of boats are necessary to the comfort and reward of CC/Bs. In all the confusion, they haven’t fully gotten around to sifting what they see as wheat from chaff. But they’re working on it.
There is a gradient, merely in the name, as to the response you receive. Try it out in coffeshop conversation, some time. Talk about a water community using the different terms, and observe the body language. Do shoulders tighten? Faces flush? Nostrils flare? Breathing become shallow and uneven? Does using a different term sooth the beast?

Of course, there’s nothing to stop us from using our favored term among ourselves. But in these troubled times, strategies of duck, weave and cover can help keep us on the water in the face of bureaucratic blight.

A rose is a rose is a rose, and by any other name smells as sweet.

Originally posted 2016-08-26 20:35:45.

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